Ok, just remember, I'm trying not to sound like a twit/dick. Girl(20) likes me(18), thing is girl has a "unique mind setting". She and her twin sis have, a sort of thing where they act a bit younger than they are. Now, I've known them for five years and they seem to have "grown up"(mentally speaking). They act about 15/16 now. I won't ask if something is actually wrong with them. But my question is, have any of you encounted something like it? Am I insane to be thinking if she would make a good mother?
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Hmm...she may make a good mother, because a lot of things change when you have a kid...but who knows until it happens. I'm sure you can think of a few good/bad signs off the top of your head...how's she been to pets? Does she seem geniune when something serious is going on? Is she faithful? These aren't litmus tests, but they're indicators.
However, my experience from girls that act like little kids is that they tend to be rather fickle; they can decide they'd rather be with the guy they saw today at the coffee shop, or some friend they've known forever, but he just got a haircut...but we always run that risk, so it really depends on this particular girl, and your assessment.
Above all, don't get suckered into telling yourself she'll change, because while she will, it'll take a few years, and by then, she will have already screwed you over, left you, and given you a few more sad memories. About five guys later, she'll settle down and grow up, but to you, she'll just be another mistake.
Heh, but that sounds depressing. She could be great; you never know. Maybe you could just date for a little while?Last edited by Lazy Bastard; 08-12-2006, 09:16:04 PM.I may be lazy, but I can...zzzZZZzzzZZZzzzZZZ...
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I would agree that she is very fickle when it comes to guys but the thing is, she still has her eyes on me for five years. On one hand I'm thinking "go for it". It's like I keep looking for a reason not to date her. I keep thinking she's going to be like the others. I'll take my chances.
She's good with her dogs and the kids around the area. Anything anyone else wants to add, feel free. I mean sure we're both still kids, so we have to gain first hand experience on everything. Thanks L B.I bring chaos everywhere! Behold! My power can cause chaos to myself!
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Wait, let me get this straight. Your standards are low enough that you're going to go ahead and date a girl you're calling retarded?Originally posted by Chaotic Forces View PostHow? Anyway they're not immature just "slow", nobody actually realises they're handicapped, which I find comical. Since I think that the rules are fucked up there.
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